Wednesday, August 14, 2013

三百万元的一堂课

三百万元一堂课?值得看?我看后, 觉得太值了!但我只用了五分钟!为了大家,我也转了!

一只骆驼,辛辛苦苦穿过了沙漠, 一只苍蝇趴在骆驼背上, 一点力气也不花,也过来了。 苍蝇讥笑说:骆驼,谢谢你辛苦把我驼过来。再见! 骆驼看了一眼苍蝇说: “你在我身上的时候,我根本就不知道, 你走了,你也没必要跟我打招呼, 你根本就没有什么重量, 你别把自己看太重,你以为你是谁。” 
著名表演艺术家英若诚曾讲过一个故事。 他生长在一个大家庭中,每次吃饭 都是几十个人坐在大餐厅中一起吃。 有一次,他突发奇想, 决定跟大家开个玩笑。 吃饭前,他把自己藏在饭厅内 一个不被注意的柜子中, 想等到大家遍寻不着时再跳出来。 尴尬的是: 大家丝毫没有注意到他的缺席, 酒足饭饱,大家离去, 他才蔫蔫地走出来吃了些残汤剩菜。 从那以后,他就告诉自己: 永远不要把自己看得太重要, 否则就会大失所望。 

被称为美国人之父的富兰克林, 年轻时曾去拜访一位德高望重的老前辈。 那时他年轻气盛,挺胸抬头迈着大步, 一进门,他的头就狠狠地撞在门框上, 疼得他一边不住地用手揉搓, 一边看着比他的身子矮去一大截的门。 出来迎接他的前辈看到他这副样子, 笑笑说: “很痛吧!可是, 这将是你今天访问我的最大收获。 一个人要想 平安无事地活在世上,就必须时刻记住: 该低头时就低头。 这也是我要教你的事情。” 
这个故事真实而简单,但是它告诉我们, 一定要学会认识自己, 千万不要把自己看得太重。 这个世界上,每个人 都很重要, 但是离了谁地球都照样地转。 一个人可以自信,但不要自大; 可以狂放,但决不能狂妄; 可以健康长寿,但不可能万寿无疆; 能够力挽狂澜,但决不可能再造乾坤。 
不把自己看得太重, 其实是一种修养, 一种风度, 一种高尚的境界, 一种达观的处世姿态, 是心态上的一种成熟, 是心志上的一种淡泊。

[据说这是一堂价值300万元的课。有空看下,不要错过!]

第一课 

一只鹰坐在高高的树上休息,无所事事。一只小兔子看见鹰并且问它,“我能象你一样坐着什么都不干吗?”鹰回答:“行啊,为啥不行。”于是,兔子坐在鹰下面的地上休息。突然,一只狐狸出现了,它扑到兔子身上把它吃掉了。 
故事寓意:
要想坐着无所事事,你必须坐在非常、非常高的位置。 

第二课 

一只小鸟飞去南方过冬。天实在太冷了。它冻僵了,掉在一片田野上。它躺在那儿时,一头母牛走过来在它身上拉了一堆屎。冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆里,开始感觉到了温暖。牛粪确实使它暖和过来了。 它躺在温暖的牛粪中,异常高兴,并开始唱起歌来。 一只过路的猫听到鸟叫赶过来看个究竟。顺着声音,它发现了牛粪下的小鸟,并迅速把它拖出来吃掉了。 
故事寓意: 
(1) 并不是每个在你身上拉屎的都是你的敌人。 
(2) 并不是每个把你拖出粪堆的都是你的朋友。 
(3) 当你深陷粪堆中的时候,最好闭上你的鸟嘴 

第三课【生意就是这样做成的】 

爹对儿子说,我想给你找个媳妇。儿子说,可我愿意自己找!爹说,但这个女孩子是比尔盖茨的女儿!儿子说,要是这样,可以。 然后他爹找到比尔盖茨,说,我给你女儿找了一个老公。比尔盖茨说,不行,我女儿还小!爹说,可是这个小伙子是世界银行的副总裁!比尔盖茨说,啊,这样,行! 最后,爹找到了世界银行的总裁,说,我给你推荐一个副总裁!总裁说,可是我有太多副总裁了,多余了!爹说,可是这个小伙子是比尔盖茨的女婿!总裁说,这样 ,行! —— 生意就是这样做成的。 

第四课【皮鞋的来历】 

很久很久以前,人类都还赤着双脚走路。 有一位国王到某个偏远的乡间旅行,因为路面崎岖不平,有很多碎石头,刺得他的脚又痛又麻。回到王宫后,他下了一道命令,要将国内的所有道路都铺上一层牛皮。他认为这样做,不只是为自己,还可造福他的人民,让大家走路时不再受刺痛之苦。 但即使杀尽国内所有的牛,也筹措不到足够的皮革,而所花费的金钱、动用的人力,更不知凡几。虽然根本做不到,甚至还相当愚蠢,但因为是国王的命令,大家也只能摇头叹息。 一位聪明的仆人大胆向国王提出建言:「国王啊!为什么您要劳师动众,牺牲那么多头牛,花费那么多金钱呢?您何不只用两小片牛皮包住您的脚呢?」国王听了很惊讶,但也当下领悟,于是立刻收回成命,改采这个建议。
据说,这就是「皮鞋」的由来。 
小哲理: 想改变世界,很难;要改变自己,则较为容易。与其改变全世界,不如先改变自己--「将自己的双脚包起来」。改变自己的某些观念和作法,以抵御外来的侵袭。当自己改变后,眼中的世界自然也就跟着改变了。如果你希望看到世界改变,那么第一个必须改变的就是自己。 
「心若改变,态度就会改变;态度改变,习惯就改变;习惯改变,人生就会改变。」 

总结课:

人生十大须知 
1、所谓铁饭碗,不是在一个地方吃一辈子饭,而是一辈子到哪里都有饭吃。 
2、把每一件简单的事做好,就不简单;把每一件平凡的事做好,就是不平凡。 
3、生活的最高境界是宽容,相处的最高境界是尊重。 
4、从崇高到荒唐只有一步,从荒唐到崇高却没有路。 
5、何谓生老病死?生的要好,老的要慢,病的要晚,死的要快。 
6、傲不可长,欲不可纵,乐不可极,志不可移。 
7、不与富交我不贫,不与贵交我不贱。 
8、世上只有想不通的人,没有走不通的路。 
9、能力就像一张支票,除非把它兑成现金,否则毫无价值。

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Jordanian Bachelor's Night

A day before I text Jerusha and asked her when we will go out cause I still owe her something for her birthday.  She didn't reply.
The next morning, she replied.  She asked me to bring her out for the shopping because she needs a dress for dinner and then she asked me to go along to the bachelor's night at Hyatt Hotel!  (only for ladies.. Lol!!)

Seriously I thought the bachelor's night would be included guys and ladies, so I was kinda excited to join the night, at least I can get to know more friends.  But still okay la, cause I get to see lots of pretty ladies and have lots of superb food there! ;)  It was black theme so I need to have something black on myself.

Took some picture before Jer came to pick me up!  I didn't buy anything for the night, I'm so lucky that I have black dress where I usually wear for work, so I'm consider lucky!
Took some pictures with Jer before and during the event!  I regret didn't put on super thick make up cause all of the guests there were with heavy makeup!!!  Lolzz  Of course there are lots of super pretty ladies.  I didn't have the courage to ask to take pictures with them, really regret and feeling stupid now for not doing what I wanted last night.

Besides having super tasty food, I had something special too!
I had Henna on my hand!  They invited an Indian lady to specially draw Henna for the bride and guests, so I waited for so long for my turn, because I realize some people are just don't know how to queue for their turn. >.<  Still I think I'm super lucky because I have the special design among others! ;)
Awesome!!! ;))
I had superb night but with a lil tired and overload of food in my stomach.  I really gained lots of weight during this holiday!  I really have to put up my mind and start with my diet plan already or else I am going to become super round after this.

ps: I am in love with Henna!

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Selamat Hari Raya (Happy Holiday!)

Finally there is holiday!  I wanted to have a holiday which of course weekend is not included la, and yes!  now I'm enjoying holiday at home.  Lolzzzz  Lots of my friends were asking why not I plan for holiday trip on these few days of holiday, at least enjoy my life out from my house, but seriously I don't know where to go la.  A friend of mine did ask me for outing but I rejected as in some reasons.

Still, I decided to spend my day today to prepare food that my sister has been always asking for since I came back from University.
Cheesy wedges and also homemade sushi!  I have been long time no cook all this already because I started to become lazy since I started to work.  I would feel like damn lazy to do housework after I work, feeling damn damn tired.  So I make working and tiring as excuse not to cook at home and choose to ask them eat outside.  Lol!

Somehow, still finally I cooked!  Lolz!!
Happy Raya anyway.

Btw, here is my face of Day 3.
Not sure whether it getting better or not, but I'm sure that it doesn't get worst.  Guess it is a very good improvement already!  I can do nothing but be patient so my pretty face can become pretty back.  Lolzzz

ps: again, happy holiday peeps~

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Pretty, Please Don't Go Further Away! I Want YOU!!!

Recently lots of thing happen and everything seems doesn't go well.  Guess God loves me so much that's why he gave me lots of tests and exams so I can get near to the perfect level.  LoLzzz
(I am trying to psycho myself to be optimistic! )

Remember I posted about my hair?  Yeah, now left one small hole at the front which the hair stylist said the hole is the first hole of everything, and it will take another 3 months to recover.  She helped me to scan my scalp already and can see that there already have little tiny hair coming out soon which we can't see from our own eyes.  So yeah, consider recover 90% on my scalp already.  Thanks to the hair stylist, Kathelein Wong from Top Concept!
Trust me, I never been so relax with someone I don't know and trust them.  So once I really trust them, I really do.  If you want to have healthy hair scalp, please don't hesitate to go find her!  
Scroll down for the information of the shop! ;)

Now my face is no longer pretty anymore.  I don't know why I can become like that!  Oh my pretty face... :(  No more pretty me already!  I went to the beauty centre and check up what is going on to my pretty face.  It is proven that the pores on my face are pimples!  I never have so many pimples in one shot before, so damn ugly!  :(
The pimples are like pop-up suddenly!  They attacked me all together!!! :((((
Can you see the pimples?!  Damn a lot la!!!  Even though they can hardly been seen from front, but still they can been seen when you look at my side of my face!  They are so obvious! :'(
I wonder when the pretty face will come back to me...  


Saturday, August 3, 2013

When Boredom Strikes

The whole July was so busy until last week, so I still can't get use to this tired month and now I still feel wanna request for more holiday.  (I keep yawning non-stop recently, sigh) This early morning as promised to mommy I brought her to the saloon to have her very first hair treatment. (I don't think she has any hair treatment before cause I never see her spend money on beauty for herself, she seldom pamper herself so I decided to bring her to enjoy life.)
Took this picture before went out to settle down everything.  Seriously like the blue shirt that I bought from KL during the training session last 2 weeks and the price is very reasonable!  Hehe!

Now I am having McDonalds in the house!  I called for delivery cause I saw the advertising of chicken flavour of Samurai Burger!  Yum!!!
I never say NO to food.  So you know why am I so fat now.  Hehe~

ps: let's think what to eat for dinner~  hurmp...

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Hello August

31 days in July, I thought it would be a tough one but you will never know how you gonna pass each day until you enjoy how you survive each day.  Yeap looking at the calendar, it's already showed August!  How would it be difficult to pass everyday?

I have been waiting for holiday for long and here come the Raya where I am going to have 4 days of holiday continuously including weekend!  Thanks to Malays!  #feelingbless 
Of course not to forget my promise towards someone, so beside of feeling blessed I need to be aware and do what I must do.  

Talking about August, looking at the calendar, there are lots of holiday!  But that's school holiday, not public holiday. :(
I am no longer a student, so I got no privilege on having or whole week of holiday like what my sister is having!  sobs...
Seriously wishing life as a student but no, because I must look forward instead of backward.  

By the way, recently I'm in love with a watch, gonna show it here when I really get myself one!  Saving money for that!  Dear lovely watch, wait for me to bring home ya!  

ps: make it a yes to get what you want!  
ps: don't hope from others, do it when you want to!
ps: August, please be nice to me kay?  I will love you for doing that to me. ;)
ps: good night! <3 p="">